As he began to raise his voice to his son , jan walked quickly over to him , put her hand on his shoulder and said , " david , please remember . . . we ' re raising children , not flowers ! 他提高嗓門準備訓斥凱利,這時簡快步地走到他身邊,用手輕輕地拍了拍他的肩膀,說: "大衛(wèi),別忘了- -我們是在養(yǎng)小孩,而不是在養(yǎng)花!